I hit rock bottom when my father passed away in 2016. It was a culmination of many things I carried along my journey – the environment I grew filled with fear and lack of freedom, where expressions aren’t encouraged, the inability to speak up even when my friend in school was slapped by a teacher, my lack of confidence in speaking up even when I knew the answers, the idea of fitting in the context of India, people making fun of my accent, insensitive words, stalked, bullied or ridicule for my different thinking, opinions and ways of life. My self-doubt during layoffs as a career woman, my loneliness during the period of my miscarriage, hospital stays and grief – I fell into the narrative, the action or inaction from people around me. I did things to please others or fit society’s norms. I felt lost!
After my father’s death, I was off the grid for a long time – reflecting, finding myself, evaluating my life. I read lot of books, wrote, ran/walk many trails, painted, and traveled a lot. I spent lot of times with art and nature. I explored, learnt to reprogram the mind and experienced the power of personal growth in a safe space with love and support from people who nurtured me back. It has been such a powerful journey bringing alignment to body, mind and soul.
I wish that I had this safe space of personal growth much earlier — I carried a lot of weight as a youth, student, woman and a mother. I cried a lot, spend sleepless nights, lot of time in self-pity, self-doubt, worthlessness, low self esteem, lack of confidence, anger, rejection, feeling insignificant, lamenting over the actions or inactions of others, giving power to others.
I reprogram myself, elevating the power within self to focus and translate my vision to reality. I wanted to share my learnings, bring in experts from different fields and create a safe space of personal growth with others like me, my younger self — hence the creation of FindingYourself – High Achievers workshop in 2019.
We completed second batch learning tools/techniques/strategy creating impact, transformation, breakthroughs from each participants. And most importantly the joy of FindingYourself getting back the belief that you have everything within you to manifesting your vision to reality when you direct your focus, take action and program yourself with the winning mentality.
I am committed to investing my weekends showing up to create a safe space of personal growth for you.
If I can do it, you can do it.
Workshops
I am looking for committed people who are open to change, break old beliefs and ready to explore the power with you, transform to bring out the best version of yourself and be the high achiever you are. We have had participants from various age groups from 10 years to 72 years.
- 4th Batch (8th Jan – 13th March 2021) – Registration OPEN Limited seats (Saturdays and Sundays at 7:30 – 8:30 pm EST USA/ 6 AM IST India)
- 3rd Batch – In Progress (Saturdays and Sundays at 6:30 – 7:45 am EST USA/ 4 PM IST India)
- 2nd Batch (2020) – Completed
- 1st batch (2019) – Completed
10 weeks of online Sessions during the weekend
Interaction with Guest Speakers experiencing special techniques.
All sessions will be recorded and access provided privately only to participants to catch up or for references only. Participants will get the opportunity to interact with Guest speakers of PeopleOfTheWorld series where we learn different tools and techniques.
Participants will have access to a private Facebook page and whatsapp group to share, support and follow through action items. Click through this link to fill in the form so that we can customize the sessions as per your need. You will receive the invite of the video call.
Content
Sessions from the following will be chosen based on the interest and needs of Participants. Content covered during workshop is subject to change to tweak and cater to the need of our Participants.
- Purpose, Goals, alignment, planning.
- Toxic Behaviors.
- Rewiring your mind.
- Confidence, Self Esteem, Self worth.
- Time Management & accountability of self.
- Career growth.
- Love, Sex & Teen life.
- Effective Communication.
- Anger Management.
- Etiquette & Manners.
- Abuse & Bullying.
- Success
- Resilience skills
More fun stuff
- Virtual 25K Run/Walk
- Trying new things
- Random act of kindness
- Gratitude project
- Book reading challenge
- Speaking with confidence
- Recognition & Celebrations
- High Achievers Club membership with continuous learning and support.
Why did you join the workshop ?
Low Confidence, Low self esteem Scared of public speaking Feeling Guilty Anxiety Anger Stress I want to deepen the relationship with my daughter and my family Focus on my studies Distracted by news, YouTube and social media So many things to be completed Strengthen relationship with my husband Not trusting my decision making Depression due to Career break Public speaking, speaking my mind out, speaking without fear I compare myself with others, I am not good enough Time Management
How do I feel after a workshop session?
“I learn the power of connection with the right people. I started to understand how to organize things in life. The biggest take away is to become limitless by letting go of unnecessary thought or belief that is not serving me. That changes my life. Before the sessions, I see very fewer possibilities in my life. But after I talk to Che Monica, I see that things are opening up slowly and gradually.”
“Let go – as the energy vortex takes away all negativity from the body”
“When I saw That everyone in the session was understanding.”
“I AM VERY HAPPY THAT I GET TO BE IN THIS CLASS”
“I got to speak my mind and open up towards others.”
“It has brought an impetus to focus on my goals and work towards achieving it.”
“I felt good, I felt I am connected with right people, I am in a positive environment.”
“I am not alone in my problems.”
Wins
“I am learning to tap on my thoughts and start understanding what kind of role it is taking to improve me. “
“I am grooming myself and letting myself free from any limited thoughts. “
“I am able to get some clarity, I am able to prioritize my task.”
Weekly Check-Ins
- Follow through on weekly action items.
- Sharing of wins/breakthrough/lows.
- Private Facebook group.
- Reflection/Check In – Once a week, recommended to practice daily to include the gratitude practice, understanding your status helps me tweak, jump in a 1-1 and add in contents as per your needs. Each session is designed for you.
Global Inner circle of High Achievers
High Achievers Members count = 11
Age 10 to 72
Workshop for High Achievers (Batch 3 – Adult Series)
10 weeks of online Sessions during the weekend
$250.00
Workshop for High Achievers (Batch 3 – Youth series)
10 weeks of online Sessions during the weekend
$150.00
Born and raised with conflict background and lack of freedom in Manipur (India), based in Maryland (USA) patent holder for identifying Caller ID, with Computer Science Engineering background, you will find Monica Ingudam innovating Healthcare solutions as a Senior Product Analyst. With the vision to spread love and positivity, you will find her hosting FindingYourself personal growth workshops for high achievers and FindingTheVoices talk-show during the weekends to inspire, empower and educate. She loves painting and you will find her traveling, reading, writing in her quiet “Me” time. She has successfully raised funds for Palliative Care and education for children using her oil paintings and prints. Do consider supporting her initiatives by getting her paintings.